Making Selfless changes

Sometimes it seems we make wrong decisions in life, and when the consequences of those decisions hit us, we feel the fullness of regret and loss. We end up letting the frustrations of taking that step, or not taking that step, handicap ourselves for a significant portion of our life.

What we need to know to be resilient people, is that we can change our circumstances again. It would take effort out of us. Sometimes corrective actions have to be drastic. Sometimes we need to make some sacrifices for ourselves. Most times we need to have a picture of hope in our future. If we believe, believe in a God that can guide us, change us and prepare a way for us. For the greater good. 

Above all, never to hurt the people around us and to hurt ourselves.

Everything is permissible but not everything is beneficial. 

The challenge here, is also not to be selfish while making these changes. We need to love ourselves too, but do good for ourselves and loved ones. Everyone can benefit.