U know, some... or most things aren't what they seem on the outside.
some people call it hypocritical.
some people just say not to judge a book by its cover.
some say its a pretense that people have in order to look good. a mask.
some are just not bothered.

Well, gone are all those things when you go to a place where your most intimate secrets are unveiled, your flaws announced, and you feel as vulnerable as a pig for slaughter.
That's what I call, dying to self. yourself.
But that's not all.
Most of the time, you don't even know what's bothering you.
you may think its recent events. but who'd know it has had a long history before then?
like past events that has kept you to be who and how you are or have become.
some people don't even know what has changed them themselves!
I'm not making vague and random conclusions.

so how can you say that they're hypocrites??
well, yes, actually, you can.
but people don't really want to be hypocrites. do they?
who wouldn't want to be honest to themselves and be happy to be open about it?
don't you just love a place where people embrace you and help you even, or especially having your flaws and secrets made known?

it's a very free feeling. really.